What it looks like, what it costs

What weddings look like now, and what they actually cost.

The dresses, the flowers, the venues: what is showing up at weddings now, and the price beside each one.

A gentle place to start

What might yours cost?

$261 per guest

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Prompts that make AI give you actually useful numbers

Ask ChatGPT, Claude or Grok about a wedding budget and you get a national average and a lot of optimism. These prompt libraries force in the things that decide the real number: your city, your month, your guest count, the service charge nobody quotes you.

Open the prompt libraries

At your service

Two tools, offered gently

The budget

Shape the whole day around what matters to you

Give it a number and it lays out every category, ready to be moved. Lock in the pieces you have already booked and watch the rest settle around them.

Begin your budget
The guest list

See what one more seat at the table really means

Your headcount moves the total more than any other choice you will make. Here is that number, before the invitations go out.

Count the cost
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Letters from the planning desk

One note a week: what things cost, what is worth it, and the small decisions nobody warns you about. Written for you, not at you.